HOW TO BECOME A MAGNET FOR ANYTHING YOU DESIRE
- Heather
- Mar 18
- 5 min read
Most humans are fickle. They think they want something, but once they attain it, they quite often realize they either:
Don’t enjoy it as they thought they would.
Enjoy it initially but quickly grow bored.
Start to take it for granted without appreciation.
Enjoy it, but do not like the downsides they hadn’t thought of coming in tandem.
Enjoy it so much that there is a clutching and fear of losing it.
Enjoy it, but start to resent the effort it took or continues to require.
We will take, for the ease of simplicity, fame. Fame is something that quite a few humans think they would enjoy. Yet when they achieve fame, it isn’t as satisfying as they visualized for various reasons.
It could be that they appreciate the notoriety and attention but realize that not all attention when famous is positive. Indeed, public opinion can change with the flip of a coin. It could be that once they achieve fame, they enjoy it briefly but are quickly bored.
Quite a few start to take their fame for granted and no longer feel the rush and appreciate the advantages of being famous.
Others enjoy the fame but do not like the effort it takes to remain in the limelight and the public relations efforts that go into staying in favor of the masses. It could be that the fame is enjoyable, but not enough, in hindsight, to warrant the struggle and effort it took to become famous.
Some humans enjoy fame but do not consider or believe others who warned them about the downsides of being famous, such as the lack of privacy or the potential of stalkers, paparazzi harassment, or public opinion turning on them with criticism and negative energy.
Fame is a potent drug for some celebrities and they are haunted by the fear of losing it. From painful surgeries to working fourteen-hour days, they will do anything to stay in the limelight.
Now it is your turn to think of something that you desire and to turn these perspectives into potent inner reflection.
First, what is it that you desire?
Now, it's your turn to reflect on something you desire and engage in inner contemplation.
First, identify your true desire:
1. What is it that you genuinely desire?
2. Do you believe you will enjoy it as much as you think you will? How certain are you?
3. How long will the initial enjoyment last before it becomes mundane?
4. How long do you anticipate taking it for granted instead of feeling gratitude?
5. Have you considered any unexpected downsides to attaining your desire?
6. Will you cling to it once you attain it, causing more stress than not having it at all?
Now, imagine that your desire is already yours and has been for some time:
1. Do you think you'll resent the effort it took to acquire it?
2. Reflect on the steps you took to attain your desire.
3. What did you have to sacrifice?
4. How much effort was required?
5. What personal weaknesses did you need to overcome?
6. In what ways did you need to grow in courage?Do you think you will enjoy it as much as you think you will? How sure are you of this?
This exercise is intrusive because it will enable you to cast aside desires that won’t serve your highest self, expression, vitality, joy, and abundance. You will be able to gain some clarity on whether the desire is nice to have or a deep desire in your heart.
Doing the exercise will also give you more discernment on what steps you can start taking to manifest your desire and strengthen your resolve so that you will keep going despite challenges and defeats.
The potential downsides of attaining what you desire will not tarnish its attainment. You will also be primed to revel fully and keep yourself in a place of gratitude for attaining your heart’s desire.
Increasing your discernment and clarity brings you more into resonance with that which you want to manifest. You start to become a magnet for drawing your desire to you with this clarity and discernment.
Know that you know some of the steps you need to start taking, you can get more detailed about what it takes to attain what you desire. You can research how others manifested what you would like and write down the steps they took. You can also reflect, pray, and brainstorm additional ideas for intuitive hits of guidance.
You can write out a flexible plan of what you will do daily, weekly, quarterly, and yearly to attain what you desire and start taking action as soon as possible. Do not allow the planning stage to be a tool of procrastination here. Start taking inutile action as quickly as possible.
Discernment + Clarity + Strategic Action + Intuitive Action = Increasing Magnetism.
Your third step in your journey to becoming a manifesting magnet is to write out your desire in vivid detail, write down what you are willing to give in exchange and affirm your resolve. Read your text and visualize having what you desire as already yours with gratitude every evening and every morning.
Wake. Visualize. Affirm. Take strategic and intuitive action daily. Play, work, laugh, love, live your life. Visualize Affirm, Sleep. Repeat.
What can you let go of?
To receive, there needs to be space.
What can you physically release from your life to make space for what you desire?
What can you forgive?
What ways of perceiving, doing, or being can you release?
Visualizing + Faith is already yours + GRATITUDE = Increasing Magnetism.
We could tell you now that it is the journey to attaining what you desire that is the magic you will relish the most at some point in your future, but you need not believe us now. Please keep part of yourself open to the idea that the journey to attaining your desires is even more valuable than receiving them. Release, relax your grip, and surrender into a flow of more abundance.
Where can you go all in and send a message to the universe that you believe, your intention is serious, and you have faith? The universe wants to know you are sure that what you say you want, you truly desire.
What bridges can you burn? What investment can you make? How can you start dressing, living, acting, and being so that you become this person who will have this desire?
Can you be patient and focus on your efforts and not keep looking over your shoulder, fussing about why your desire isn’t here yet?
The universe is working to bring you your order. You are visualizing, affirming, taking your daily actions, visualizing, affirming, being in gratitude, going all in, and staying persistent. Next, it is time to surrender and trust. Keep listening to your intuition on what new actions you can take.
Stay the course. Trust the Timeline. And know that if your initial desire isn’t arriving, it's because something even better is on its way.
The universe always rewards steadfast dedication, action, gratitude, and faith in the attainment of a dream.